Having a sexless wife is a crushing blow to any guys manhood. Swaying between feeling that you are somehow to blame to the other end of the spectrum where you blame them for deliberately holding out as some sort of long standing punishment for perceived wrongs. In any case, a sexless marriage where the wife refuses sex and never initiates sex frustrating and self perpetuating.
I once had no sex in marriage for a good two years of my life. No intimacy in marriage and no passion at all and through it all i kept thinking what did I do! How have I changed to make my husband stop desiring me!
Then rift that occurs between once happy sexual people to become sexless couples is not an easy path to track most of the time. In fact most sexless couples do not quite remember when things started to turn so finding a single event, a single cause of a sexless relationship can be an impossible task.
Tony Brown and Nancy Gerald here. We were both stuck in separate sexless marriages with very different reasons but both managed to pull through.
We have been online friends for years now and wanted to share some experiences and gives some advice to other sexless couples who might be struggling in a relationship with no sex.
